Where to begin?

I have found myself feeling that this should somehow call for a deep reflection over the past 30+ years and finding those "defining moments" that shaped my career. Then I sit back and realize that that is all too dramatic. Actually, in reflection, there are moments etched in my memory that "stick out" but the definition of a career is not in "moments" but in the journey itself. Throughout my career, I found myself encouraging teams that sport was not about the last or final contest but about the journey in getting to that point. That is where life is taught. "Moments" will be remembered, yes. The state championship, the district loss that means you won't be competing at regionals, etc. will be remembered but these events in themselves did not shape who I became, nor did these moments shape who the student athletes became. I believe what shaped them (as well as myself) was the daily commitments and sacrifices which were made, and relationships that were developed. I have received countless letters, emails and calls from former athletes. All these communications have a few things in common. NONE of them EVER refer to the district, regional or state championships won. Nor do they refer to any tragic, and life changing loss. What they ALL seem to note is what they learned that they still carry with them today. They remember things which they learned that even today help them as they face life's challenges. They learned to work hard for a common goal. They learned that, even though their team mate might not be their 'best friend,' he was their TEAM MATE, and therefore deserving of their respect and concern. Many refer to the required 'handshake' or "check out" as we called it, and how that in itself made them feel significant. I say that their presence and effort were significant. What they taught me and their teammates through this presence and effort was very significant.
Okay, so I got somewhat dramatic. Right now I only need apologize to Ashley as she is probably the only one that will read this. I guess we'll see what tomorrow holds.